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I try so hard to understand my man Gustavo he thinks I don't appreciate him for the things he do for me all cause I don't acknowledge it to him, he got mad at me and took off walking,he said I'm - question #17576
already late,he talking about going to go get his bike,it's hard for me to be there for him when he can't show me,look his face,not talking to me, not watching a movie with me and not interested in making love to me, the excuses he uses (we always arguing) he don't know how to let the past go, he needs to grow up and admit his wrongs, to be honest I don't even know why he's with me why he wanna be in a relationship with me,we both don't have kids and I do wanna have kids we ain't getting no younger… I want him to get use to be around my family again and get to know my brother… His caseworker still ain't doing right for him cause he still have no identifications and he stay with someone who doesn't care about him, idk why he always think he got to have friends he seen me done had it hard when I stay with people.
June 29, 2026
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Gustavo cares about you,but he's carrying his own frustrations and isn't expressing them well.This rough patch will improve with honest communication and mutual appreciation.Your relationship become warmer and stable if both of you choose to let go of past hurts and focus on the future together.
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Why is he with you? Why does he want to be in a relationship with you? He loves and appreciates you just the way you are. And yes ,he has a lot of insecurities that prevent him from simply living his life ,interacting with people ,and with you, too .But sooner or later, he'll realize this and appreciate you and how you treat him, what you do for him and how you help him. He doesn't hide anything from you .Well,if he does something that would make you really angry,that's why he's afraid of that.
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