I don't understand why you still want my attention when you're entertaining and talking to so many other people. What is it about me that makes it so difficult for you to accept that someone else - question #19868

might want my attention? I can understand why the thought of someone else being interested in me bothers you, but what I don't understand is why you're struggling with it when you didn't do right by me in the first place. Whether there's someone else or not isn't even the point. The point is that you can't expect me to worry about your feelings, who you're comfortable with me talking to, or who might want something with me when you haven't shown me the same consideration. You can't have your attention everywhere else and still expect mine to remain reserved for you. I just don't understand why you want something from me that you weren't willing to properly value when you had it.

Anonymous question November 7, 2026