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I have helped Jordan try to come home from deployment since I first met him. His identity was stolen. Problem is when he tells me what it costs, he would tell me to go on a payment of $250, but then - question #3493
he surprises me with last minute extra expenses, like his medicine, his food, his hospital bill etc and he made me spend almost $300, when I was only paid $325 and it had to last me two weeks until my last payday. Now I have a reduction in work hours, and can't even afford his payment plan of $200 either but I do it anyway because I love him and want him home. Then I was told to stay home because the power was out where I worked and everyone had to go home per restaurant being closed early. And I only got $149. He agreed that I should only spend $100 this time so I could have enough for a little while. But then this morning he sends me a text to do $120 that I can't afford. But I can't afford more than $100. He always says it's for food or medicine.
June 27, 2025
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Hello, I'm afraid I'll upset you, but you see that there is a deception hidden here. You know for sure that he is on the army's support. And if he asks for some money, it means there are personal goals and personal gain for this. This is manipulation. He disappeared for a while and now he's back and wants money from you he wants to take advantage of your kindness and trust. Yes, it's normal for a couple to have joint money to help each other but you are not rich enough to support him. I can see that someone in the army is standing over him and forcing him to engage in such manipulations.
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Jordan used to do this to you too.He says one amount,then at the very last moment another.He takes advantage of your kindness and knows that you love him.,That's how he is.He is like this,maybe he doesn't understand you due to his age,what he is doing now,although he has flashes of awareness and understanding of this.
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