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Paul (cancer) dumped me, he said between us we have too much baggage for a long term relationship and the thought of having more children to think about is causing his an anxiety he can't cope with. - question #5209
Is that is for us or will he return?
September 19, 2025
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Total answers: 4
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It looks like Paul needs some alone time and privacy, he is being so logical about your relationship and you in the other hand so emotional.
You have to reconsider your options and move on from being stuck. He will eventually come and match your energy and seek a serious more grounded relationship with youChat with advisor -
Paul didn't leave you ,he got scared and took time to think about the whole situation that developed between you. Give him time ,he won't go anywhere. Don't worry.
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Right now, his fear of responsibility and anxiety about the future are clouding his heart. I don’t feel the door is fully shut he still thinks of you and the bond you shared. With time and space, there is a chance he may circle back, but only if his worries ease. Trust that if he returns, it will be clearer and lighter.
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Having children is perceived as proof of love, but it's a very emotional decision, so you need to reconsider your desires. Children are, first and foremost, a responsibility, and the floor doesn't want this responsibility; there's no need to pressure it.
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