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I have a question to ask. I am just an innocent person, with autism. I really thought I found true love with Jordan valderaz,who is in the army. Well, as everyone here knows I have been helping him - question #5376
come home. And now is he threatening me with another military punishment if I don't go to my bank, set up online access and link it to his Sofi account. Not only am I not able to do this, but I don't want to. He can still get home without me doing that. Am I right that he is taking his situation out on me and abusing me emotionally and financially? This is not a scam but basically domestic abuse while he is serving in the military. He assaulted his last husband and spent the night in jail. I really wanted to be with him, made the stupid mistake of thinking I could change him and re educate him on how to treat a civilian. I guess this means God never intended for me to have true love. I am developmentally disabled therefore I can't have true love especially with Jordan
September 23, 2025
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Yes, this is a provocation towards you because Jordan is in a dependent position and he is transferring his negative emotions onto you. You are absolutely right. This looks like domestic violence. He has a very tough character and he won't be able to make you happy even if you get married.
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I hear your pain, and I want to be very clear with you, with compassion: what Jordan is doing is emotional and financial abuse. Someone who truly loves you would never threaten you, pressure you about money, or try to control your bank account. That is not love, it is manipulation. Please know: your autism or disability does not mean you can’t have true love. You are absolutely worthy of a kind, safe, and respectful partner who treasures you. The problem is not you it’s Jordan’s harmful behavior.You are right to resist linking your bank to his account. Protect your safety and your finances. You deserve peace and genuine love, not fear and control.
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This is a person who acts rashly, under the influence of emotion, without considering the consequences. They may be prone to harsh words and actions, without considering how they will affect others.
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It's immediately clear that you sincerely love Jordan .But how he treats you and what he does -that's his behavior. And he wants the best.He doesn't understand that you're a civilian.
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